Emilie Easie

 He has a pretty short post history and it's just him telling everyone who will listen exactly what he told me. I can't help but wonder what these people are like if you run into them in real life. He ALSO sent me a dick pic, but it either got removed when I reported it for harassment or he deleted them, I'm actually not sure which.    

For those who don't know, cukqueaning is sort of like the gender-reverse of cucking. It's women who are into seeing their men with other women (or, women who are into seeing their women with other women... or men... you get the idea!) Cucking men is usually associated with humilation (as opposed to hotwifing, damn, should I make a whole blog post about this kind of thing?) while cuckqueaning isn't always.   Anyways, absolutely no kink-shaming here! I think cuckqueaning is great. To be honest, I like a lot of really taboo stuff, and cheating / sleeping around is definitely up there! So yes, I comment on cuckquean porn sometimes. I kinda consider this post a sort of cuckquean thing by a dominant woman. But that's a fantasy. IRL, a lot of guys who are into this are kind of scumbags. Like, duh, right? They just want to cheat. There are definitely guys who are into it and are good guys, too, but they're hard to find!  Re: this guy, what do you think are the odds he'...

 Or should I say, the worst DM I've ever gotten... so far? hahaha! Hah... hah 😓  Seriously feel free to find this guy and spam him.  

 Sometimes I'm tempted to think that these people are all like edgy 15 year-olds, and they don't fully understand what they're doing, but for a 15 year old to talk like this isn't less disturbing to me. You should never, ever think it's okay to approach someone like this.  

The comments I used to leave on artworks for rule 34 (before I ended up quitting that website due to the constant harassment) were things like "She looks super hot!" and "I love this character!" Sometimes I might get a little kinky, stuff like "I love losers like this who let me tell them they're losers 💓," things like that. I n e v e r commented things like "I want to RP this" or "I wish that was me!" and in fact, I started adding an adendum to all of my comments that I did not want anyone to DM me their fantasies. Still, I would get guys in my DMs insisting that just by participating in the community at all I was somehow inviting these kinds of messages. To top it all of, the mods turned against me for trying to protect myself. Let me know if you want to see that whole story someday.

I've been told by some of these guys that they actually just believe that women enjoy receiving these messages out of the blue. I shouldn't need to explain why that's not true, but suffice to say that most people who are actually successful in their interactions with other people build up friendships and regular ERP partners and they don't need to spam every single woman they run across indiscriminately.    

I guess to some degree I kiiiinda understand assuming that hentai artists are always drawing their own fantasies? I don't really think about story creation that way, but I guess I kinda understand where they're coming from when they ask me. I do NOT understand why they think it would be okay, ever, even if I do want to explore those kinks, to just start unprompted talking about kidnapping me? It's really brain-dead stuff. And why do they always assume I want to be the kidnapped person and not the kidnapper? Just because it's a guy doing the kidnapping and I'm a woman? I can sympathize with male characters too, you know. Like duh.