Emilie Easie

 Sometimes I have fun with it! Ehehe!  

 Or should I say, the worst DM I've ever gotten... so far? hahaha! Hah... hah 😓  Seriously feel free to find this guy and spam him.  

This happens a lot on these RP-heavy communities--people who don't know me will insist they're fantasizing about me. They don't know what I look like or what I sound like or act like because we've literally never talked before. They're fantasizing about some made up dream girl and then projecting that on to me. Also, they're usually really confused about why women don't find that flattering.  To be clear: I think it's pretty harmless to have little passing internet crushes, even on people you don't actually know, just don't make it my problem  😅

It's funny: a lot of times people on reddit will get mad at me for something totally unrelated (like I stood up for Palestinians or something) and bring out the fact that I'm a hentai artist like it's some kind of "gotcha!" Like I'll be worried and embarrassed if they point that out, even though I'm clearly commenting on non-porn stuff on my regular porn account because I don't have anything to hide, lol. A lot of them will say, specifically, "Oh yeah? Well you make hentai for a living!" even though I make basically no money on this at all (support links are in the sidebar, though, if you wanna help fix that ehehe 😄) It feels like a compliment, like they're saying, "you're so good at art, you must be making a living doing this." They can't even deny my skill, even if they're saying they think it's a profession of ill repute. But I guess shaming a hentai artist on the worst hentai website like rule34[dot]xxx ...

 Sometimes I'm tempted to think that these people are all like edgy 15 year-olds, and they don't fully understand what they're doing, but for a 15 year old to talk like this isn't less disturbing to me. You should never, ever think it's okay to approach someone like this.  

The comments I used to leave on artworks for rule 34 (before I ended up quitting that website due to the constant harassment) were things like "She looks super hot!" and "I love this character!" Sometimes I might get a little kinky, stuff like "I love losers like this who let me tell them they're losers 💓," things like that. I n e v e r commented things like "I want to RP this" or "I wish that was me!" and in fact, I started adding an adendum to all of my comments that I did not want anyone to DM me their fantasies. Still, I would get guys in my DMs insisting that just by participating in the community at all I was somehow inviting these kinds of messages. To top it all of, the mods turned against me for trying to protect myself. Let me know if you want to see that whole story someday.

What the hell did he mean by "personal experience" in this context lol? It's just a hentai thing you GOOBER, I don't actually want to fuck blood relatives. Why does that even need to be said!?    

 His username being so on-the-nose did kind of make me chuckle. Sometimes you have to laugh.  

I've been told by some of these guys that they actually just believe that women enjoy receiving these messages out of the blue. I shouldn't need to explain why that's not true, but suffice to say that most people who are actually successful in their interactions with other people build up friendships and regular ERP partners and they don't need to spam every single woman they run across indiscriminately.    

I guess to some degree I kiiiinda understand assuming that hentai artists are always drawing their own fantasies? I don't really think about story creation that way, but I guess I kinda understand where they're coming from when they ask me. I do NOT understand why they think it would be okay, ever, even if I do want to explore those kinks, to just start unprompted talking about kidnapping me? It's really brain-dead stuff. And why do they always assume I want to be the kidnapped person and not the kidnapper? Just because it's a guy doing the kidnapping and I'm a woman? I can sympathize with male characters too, you know. Like duh.